Cereal crumbs settle at the bottom of a cereal box-- a lot like married couples who’ve lived together for years. Couples let it all hang out and soon peculiaritiesand odd habits are revealed. Everything has settled after 37 years.One gets used to being married and sort of lets their hair down. Sometimes, too much. Over the years quirks and habits become a part of everyday living.I’ve gotten used to towels being strewn about the bath room,and the foyer being used as a pit stop for his beach gear and work clothes. Tom likes his stuff accessible. We could move the “pot” into the room, too! The clutter gets quickly picked up when neighbors or family pop in.
I keep some of my artist equipment by the bed on my side of the bedroom: An easel and a storage drawer unit. I keep on top of it so it doesn’t get in the way. My walk-in closet is another storage area for my photo equipment and supplies. I’m pretty neat, always stowing things back where they belong.
Granted, nothing stays the same--except my weight. I’m only 7 pounds over from the day Tom married me. I still have a full head of hair.Tom’s pants slink off his shrinking waistline. His diet is pretty healthy, though something calorie-filled wouldn’t hurt him in the least. I fondly remember when he used to eat cookies and birthday cake. I try to avoid sweets, except for my once a week guava danish I get from Whole Foods.
After two kids and a long marriage, gravitationally, things will settle… the ladies out in cyber-land know what from where I speak. Doing housework almost naked is an attractive option, especially in hot and humid Florida. I wear a swimsuit so I don't scare the dust bunnies...